This article is more about properly executing your power of influence over your children. The title just sounds terrible, aside from the fact that it’s solid when it comes to relevance, it’s still misleading. Describes an inside point of view that helps you learn how parents can still be great while discouraging disobedience. awareness and attitude TEA tips for being square without looking like an unfashionable jerk in front of your kids.
Just be very aware of the natural limits that life imposes on us and be positive in those limits. For example, you are the father and always will be. sometimes you can become I like it a friend (and you’re their friend too), but they need a father more, so keep being the father.
Not forgetting a recent bumper sticker that really hit home on this particular issue. The phrase says; “It was uncool before cool was cool.” It seems appropriate here. The key to having a real influence on her children is to STOP trying. If you’re trying to do being good appearance cool, it always ends up looking a bit silly. Not too different from the title of this article. You can’t be trying and you certainly can’t look like you’re trying.
Less is more. It has to come naturally. These days being good is better than being stupid, unlike ten years ago. Each and every one of our ‘next generations’ gets a little bit smarter because we’re getting a little better at guiding them.
Here are the best tips for being honest when discouraging disobedience in my opinion.
Practice the preparation. Recognize and learn all the different stages of conflict so you know what to expect. Always be prepared and expect the worst possible scenario that may arise from any given situation. So work from there. This can help you be more methodical and active in preventing future problems. Maintain an emotional difference whenever possible.
Pay close attention to your own feelings. This can be difficult at times. Let’s face it, it’s not always easy to see ourselves as we really are or to become aware of how we feel at any given moment. We are in the moment. The only answer to this is hindsight.
Reflecting on the things that just happened and trying to improve them next time will be your only guide for this. So whenever possible, grab a pen and paper and write down how you felt during any given situation. Taking notes of how you think you could have done better and how and what caused your emotions to get the better of you will be really key here.
Another key is not to go back too far with this. You’re starting this, so keep it closer to now. Something from your past, but the more recent the better. Write down as many feelings you’ve been through as possible.
Lead by your own actions. The old adage actions speak louder than words never meant more than in this example. Parenting by example is the surest and most pronounced way to influence your children. The only way to be sure is to be real, not pretend. It works beyond belief and with much less effort.
Your children love you even more than you think. They secretly admire you, regardless of your hidden insecurities. We are all hard on ourselves and often forget that our hidden insecurities are hidden. Just be who you really are and you shouldn’t have a problem. It’s when you try to be everything all the time that many parents end up in a mess.
be direct You wouldn’t believe how much it can work to be completely honest. Being frank in advance saves a lot of trouble and wasted time. Being frank can be a lot of fun for a child. Be honest even when you expect it to be unproductive and you may be surprised. As long as you present things in the right light, they can seem magical to a young child. Especially our own impressionable child.
Be patient and be positive. If you can be carefree and mindfully act naturally, you can effectively influence them to reach the proper stage of adulthood. It has to be completely natural and act like it’s something you shouldn’t need to know or follow. It is something like reverse psychology but with a certain subtlety. At first it may seem like a bit of a contradiction, but in reality it is not so much a contradiction as a change of attitude.
Always remember to have a little fun. Such is life and it is meant to be lived, the good times and the bad. When you are with your child, cherish those moments. If you have fun in mind, you better be able to create some memorable moments together.
Remember that attitude is everything and must be positive. Great parents are always the ones who try to understand even when they can’t. So let them be themselves as long as you don’t see any harm in it.
Show a little confidence. Children need to know that you believe in them and they need to be reminded of that almost all the time. Constant confirmations that you believe in them will help them develop trust and esteem. This will help them feel better about themselves and about following your advice. They will also come to you more often when they have problems if you can show them that you trust them.
Parenting can be a healthy combination of the right attitude and presentation. Focus is primarily the deciding factor of whether or not you communicate with your children. You need to learn from your children by being open and aware of what works and what doesn’t.
Again, the most important thing to keep in mind here is to never try to be something you are not. It is just as important to be yourself as it is to let them be themselves. Keeping these two principles, Attitude Y Awareness in mind and constantly seeking to improve as a parent will keep you calm, collected and collected most of the time.
A lot of this is very challenging stuff and it’s a process that certainly won’t happen overnight. There is much more information available to help you follow these tips to get the desired result. This process is endless and is always in motion. Constant learning that will help you in your relationship with your child is, and always should be; A happy task.
