Unfortunately guys, the representation of lesbians in the world of porn and also, for the most part, our own view of lesbians is totally different from the real world. However, there is so much we can learn from lesbians to improve our own performance!
So, believe it or not, the innocent pillow fights or hair braiding that naturally lead to a rough girl-on-girl 69 followed by hard leash work just doesn’t happen that much in the real world, almost never really. ! If that’s your idea of lesbian sex, I’m sorry to say, but you’re a long way off! The best thing though is that by learning about the true lesbian experience and then adapting it to your own lovemaking, your own sexual performance and ultimately your and your partner’s sexual satisfaction will explode to heights never before achieved!
Most men would be absolutely devastated to learn that most women think us men are pretty boring in the sack! Most lesbians, especially in relationships, report a significantly higher level of sexual satisfaction than heterosexual women. This is largely because women have very different needs in bed and during sex than men, which is why lesbians are so fulfilled and fulfilled. They know what they want and how to do it!
Men can sometimes treat sex as a job or a means to an end and it can seem like a fairly planned event. For example, wetting her and getting her ready, getting inside her, pushing furiously until you get the rocks off, then rolling over and falling asleep.
Women want, and lesbians bring, a completely different experience to the bedroom. Kissing, touching, sucking, caressing and massaging are things that women love. They drive them wild and on edge. Have you been spending time in these areas or have you been ignoring them?
Because men sometimes have a sequence of events in mind that always leads to the ultimate goal of the man ejaculating, the magic ingredient of successful sex and love is missing, forgotten, or simply ignored. And that ingredient is to maximize the pleasure of both parties, or more clearly, their enjoyment and pleasure of it! So while men just want to climax, the experience is much different for women.
When two lesbians have sex or make love, they are not selfishly thinking about how it will end for them and they are also not thinking about a common goal of a thunderous orgasm and that’s it! For women, as we should all know by now, an orgasm is not the end of the act. Plus, every look, touch, and sensation between orgasms is part of the overall experience. They savor the softness of their skin, the warmth of their partner’s body, the smell of their breath and body, and most importantly, how their partner reacts and responds to every touch and caress. It is primarily about two people coming together for mutual pleasure and shared intimacy.
Great I hear you say! So lesbians have it all; an inside knowledge and understanding of exactly what a woman wants and how to give it to her. Well yes, that’s true, but the great news for you and indeed all men is that this works for us with our heterosexual partners as well. You don’t need to have a vagina to make sensual and emotional love with your partner! Women want intimacy, women want foreplay, and most of all, women want to be indulged and involved in the whole process of lovemaking and sex, and not just a mere tool to help you get unstuck! Don’t worry guys, it’s not all roses and massages, your girl will no doubt have times when all she wants is a good quickie, rough and done! All I’m trying to get across to you here is that for the most part, if you want to receive great sex on a regular basis, then you need to play your part in delivering great sex!
I have discovered that what I work the most is pleasing women first and without worrying about my own needs; Everything is paid back to me with interest! After men orgasm, all we want to do is go to sleep! Give your woman orgasms and she will usually continue, often even in a heightened state of arousal and enjoyment. Once you take your partner to this level, you will find that she is more than happy to give you almost anything you want!
The key message here is to remember that women absolutely relish the pleasure they bring you. Although there are some out there, most women don’t actually like fucking us men as something they specifically enjoy. They do it and then they like it for the pleasure it gives them as a result of pleasing you!
Making love in such a selfless way ignites and satisfies all of our senses and is pretty much the main reason why lesbians do it better than us! Don’t miss out on the pleasure that you too can give and earn. Learn what you can about lesbians and then go back and put it to use at home. I guarantee that your partner will absolutely appreciate it!
