Weddings are such enjoyable and important occasions. They gather family and friends in a ceremonial celebration of love and happiness. As time goes by and our lives become more and more hectic and fast-paced, these wedding gatherings have never been more important. They allow us the rare opportunity to relax during the day and really think about what matters in life; love, family and friendship.
However, receiving a wedding invitation and getting ready to go can often create an untold amount of stress and anxiety for wedding guests. Never mind arranging time off from work, babysitters, travel arrangements, the wedding gift, and of course the rising cost of going to a wedding; The most stressful part of being invited to a wedding is choosing and deciding what outfit to wear.
Choosing an outfit for a wedding can be a really difficult process and not only for women, but also for men and children. You want to look your best, you want to look like you’ve really put in the effort, you’ll be meeting people you haven’t seen in years, so it would be horrible to show up looking worse. On top of all of this, there’s also the issue that whatever you do, you don’t want to upstage the bride.
So where do you start? Well, start by planning everything down to the last detail. Grab a notepad and pen and work your way from your feet to your head.
Consider the time of year of the wedding. If it’s a summer wedding you may prefer to wear sandals or sling backs, if it’s a winter wedding then boots might be appropriate. If you choose sandals, then you can go for a skirt or a sundress, but you can also get away with a pantsuit or trousers. With boots you may like to wear them with a short skirt or a dress.
Next, you need to consider color. What color suits you best? Cancel Black or White immediately. It is not appropriate for a guest to wear white, because if the bride opts for a white dress then you will clash. It is also not appropriate to wear all black as it is traditionally reserved for funerals.
Accessories can be dazzling and glamorous. Rhinestones, crystals, and diamonds really work well as accessories because they go with any color and can make you look much more elegant. Once you’ve decided on your main footwear and outfit, you need to consider a jacket or shawl, a bag or purse, a hat or headpiece, and whether or not to wear a buttonhole or corsage.
Finally, your makeup and beauty regimen should be considered of equal importance to your outfit and should be planned well in advance. Nails, hair, lashes, tanning, and makeup should be thought through and appointments booked or products purchased at least ten days before the big day.
A light faux tan can give anyone a healthy glow and if you want to up your exertion stakes, you really should consider one. Unless you are really used to applying fake tan, you should always book an appointment to have it done by a professional. meter
Your hair is very important and unwashed or unkempt is a big no no for your wedding day. Having it ‘on’ can make a lovely gift and will keep it looking nice and clean throughout the day. If you wear a hat, consider how your hair will look once you take it off. A headdress can be worn all day and night, but can feel a bit heavy at the end of the day.
Makeup can cover up a multitude of sins and should always be worn. Go to the counter of a department store and ask for a makeover a few weeks before the wedding. You don’t have to do this on the day, but it can give you some great makeup ideas and it can freshen up your regimen by giving you a new perspective.
A real eye-opener and must-have for wedding guests today is a set of false eyelashes. False eyelashes enlarge your eyes, make you look younger, add an elegant air to your appearance and enhance your femininity. Strip lashes are so easy to apply at home and come in so many great designs and styles. As a wedding guest, it’s important that you don’t go for anything too bold and beautiful, but a few subtle feathers or a touch of glitter can work wonders to enhance your perfect outfit.
So the next time you’re invited to a wedding, take the time to write down everything you want to do to make sure you look your best on the big day. You may not be able to afford some things, but think outside the box and ask a friend to help you with your makeup or lend you a fascinator.
Above all, relax and enjoy the day with your family and friends.
