The most disturbing, and perhaps the most upsetting, news someone can receive is the bride’s involvement in extra-martial affairs. You feel angry, stupid and empty. You’re so disappointed that you want to confront her about her double life, but you’re trying to hold back for fear of saying something that might make the situation worse or probably because you’re not entirely sure if they’re really cheating on you.
First of all, it is always important to keep in mind that no matter what the situation is, there is no point in spending too much time or worrying too much until it is confirmed that your girlfriend is having an affair. Even some of the most blatant signs of cheating in a girlfriend can have perfectly innocent origins. While it is important not to pretend that there are no signs, it is equally important that you do not make too much of the signs until the suspicion is finally confirmed.
Listed below are some signs of a cheating girlfriend…
Working late: Have you suddenly started working late and told yourself that you have more demands at work but nothing shows in your paychecks? There are many women who work overtime but do not cheat. The key word here is “suddenly”, and if this happens more frequently, you may need to check this further.
She was probably having giggly, giggly conversations with friends, but it all suddenly ends when you walk into the room. She might deflate from happy to sad as soon as she sees your face. The sign obviously means that she’s not happy to see you, but have you ever wondered who could be making her happy? Don’t you think you’re dealing with a cheating girlfriend?
Work schedule – Does your girlfriend suddenly work late most of the time? Has she been telling you lately that she has to go on Saturday but you don’t see any raise because of the overtime? Your girlfriend may actually be working overtime and not cheating on you. But the key word is suddenly, and if she continues week after week without a change in her salary, then her girlfriend is cheating on him.
Receipts: If seen by chance, they can provide you with concrete evidence that your girlfriend cheated on you. Most cheating girlfriends change their clothes as soon as they start cheating. If it’s not underwear, it could be large amounts of credit for their cell phones or gifts that can only be for one man (like colognes, condoms, razor blades, etc.).
Change in her sexual behavior: If you were sexually active before, but now things are boring and distant, she may be enjoying herself elsewhere.
Unexplained extra mileage on the car: She works 10 miles away but the car mileage is 60 miles a day? Where did the extra 50 miles come from? If she says that she was coming home straight from work or that she was having lunch at the office or driving to a quick meal, don’t question her. Instead, secretly take a look at the mileage at the beginning and end of each day. If he has been traveling without another guy, you will notice a significant difference between the distance she says she travels and what she says the mileage actually is.
Your wife calls out another man’s name in bed. It could be when you are making love to her or just talking in her sleep, if she could be thinking about another man to the point of calling her by her name, then your relationship could have some problems.
