To get the girls’ attention, you need to stand out from the crowd. People judge by appearance and you only have a few seconds to show that you are a man of style. So first and foremost, you need to look at your way of dressing:
Is your dress boring or interesting and unique? Of course, there is no point dressing up as a gigolo, because you have to feel comfortable in your clothes.
It is very helpful to ask your friends about your outfit (but don’t be offended if they are critical, criticism will help you a lot more than just “Yes, you’re the man!”). It’s even better if you find some girls to ask. Just tell them you want to change your style a bit – girls love all kinds of questions about fashion. You can also ask street girls how they like your outfit and where you can buy cool things.
If you’ve read the book called “The Game” by pickup writer and artist Neil Stauss (aka Style) describing the pickup community, you’re familiar with the “Peacock Theory.” If not, here is an enlightening excerpt:
“The peacock theory is the idea that to attract the most desirable female of the species, you need to stand out in a striking and colorful way. For humans … the equivalent of a striking peacock tail is a shirt. shiny, a flashy hat and jewelry that glows in the dark … “
That means you can get a girl’s attention and make her take an interest in you simply through the way you dress. Do you think wearing things like feather boas, cowboy hats, or flashy jewelry is silly? Maybe it is. But think about this: How many times has someone in your outfit approached you? Not much? Never? Well, that’s what this material is good for: it allows women (mainly shy women) to start a conversation with you. If you have an interesting answer and can prove a higher value, you will most likely get your number. At the same time, you show great self-confidence by wearing these things. And women love confident guys.
