Sex outside of marriage, once taboo, has become widely the order of the day in the so-called modern day. The situation is now such that it is considered absurd not to do so. Like a dog beaten in a competition, humanity is beginning to return home with its tail tucked between its legs as a result of the suffering, pain, shame, and disease that premarital sex brings.
As the nastiness and defiance of premarital sex and infidelity in marriages shake people back to their senses, relationship authorities including Aunt Agatha of Share A Problem with Agatha and Marriage Clinic, Alexandra Fox Associate Tina L. Jones, notable relationship coaches and the book Foundation For Joyful Relationship have spoken vehemently about the merits of avoiding premarital sex and the dangers of participating in it.
It has been established that premarital sex destroys the possibility of a relationship becoming a beautiful experience. However, those who engage in premarital sex do so for the experience. Surveys have shown that a large number of young single adult men and women would like to avoid premarital sex. How do they do this in the presence of the overwhelming influence of sexual dimorphism?
The following preparations and activities have greatly helped to save the virtue of the young and even the old in courtship:
• Be careful not to be alone with the opposite sex. I know the questions will come from left to right and from the center. How can we go out without being able to be alone so we can talk? How can we learn from each other without talking? This is why there is a lot of emphasis placed on group dating. You don’t need to be alone to talk. In fact, when they’re alone together, they wouldn’t be talking. He would be consumed by feelings that would drive him to premarital sex unless he did the next best thing…
• Leave, Run, Escape: Be prepared and please leave the dating scene when you first notice that you are lonely or the mood has started to change. In fact, by the time their conversation begins to hang up, words become sparse and they both start staring at each other. When he leaves where he was sitting and approaches your side and begins to breathe those charged airs from his body. The moment he starts grabbing your hands. By the time his friends who were with you two start to leave, it’s also time for you to leave. This could be fixed. This is when date rape takes place. This is the time to leave, run and escape, whatever is applicable with your circumstances. It might be necessary to bring the man back to his senses with a dirty slap. This could be counterproductive, but very useful if you can’t escape. However, it is best to get up and go, run and escape as the case may be.
• Set the beginnings: It is absolutely necessary to establish some benchmarks before you set the date or when you settle down to talk. Some of the issues that need to be resolved in advance include but are not limited to:
A. foul language
b. intimate language
against Handshakes and touching
d. caressing and kissing
Dirty and intimate languages would awaken in both feelings that they cannot control. Your tolerance for this type of language would make you known as someone who is prepared for whatever comes, including sexual relations on demand. Most men rush to take advantage of such opportunities. Probably most women too.
Cuddling and kissing, handshaking and touching are dangerous precursors to sexual intercourse. During wedding ceremonies, the official conducting the wedding usually invites the groom to kiss the bride as husbands and wives do. That is a removal clause for dating couples.
Experience has shown that those who date appropriately and avoid premarital sex enjoy their dating and dating experience much more than those who engage in premarital sex. Also, clear-headed early marriage decisions have resulted in more sexless dating and courtrooms.
