“My mother said that it was easy to support a man, you must be a servant in the living room, a cook in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom…” –Jerry Hall
When Jerry Hall said those famous words, he was talking about the ideal woman in the 1980s. Not much has probably changed and the same type of woman would still be attractive today. The same goes for the women in our lives, none of them want a one-dimensional, easy-going guy. Even the briefest survey of online women’s magazines revealed that the list of traits women look for in men included caring, nerdy, tough, passionate, and gentlemanly. The key to being the boy of his fantasies and giving him the most erotic orgasms is to know which boy he wants and when…
You probably have all of those traits in you, but not at the same time. This is why role-play can help to ‘fill in the gaps’. You become more chivalrous or more manly than normal. One of the best tips for RPGs is to “be what you’re not.” Rough men should wear a suit and tie from time to time. Similarly, businessmen must go and do some exciting or dangerous activity wearing stereotypical ‘macho’ clothing. The key is to keep her intrigued and excited about each date, not knowing what to expect.
Variety is the key to your (sexual) life
Part of the thrill of sex comes from never having discovered each other and never forgetting to surprise each other. Women love the emotional rush of never knowing exactly what is coming. Once he thinks he has you under control, have fun mixing and matching your fantasies. Show up for a quick coffee wearing a suit or get really sexual in an expensive restaurant.
Sex is the best time to really mix the styles and give her a big emotional roller coaster ride. Having frantic sex, with soft and sensual kisses, is a great example. Likewise, gentle, loving intercourse can be broken up into more intense moments without losing the vibe. Remember that it’s just a fantasy, so give her a couple of different fantasies at once.
Women ultimately want a complete man. The perfect guy for them is the one who can give them different things at different times. What guys get wrong, both in and out of bed, is that they only give their partner one thing. So have fun being all the different sides of your personality. On the other hand, there is also nothing wrong with being sexual all the time. Even Jerry Hall agrees, the second half of his quote saying, “I said I’d hire the other two and take care of the bedroom!”
